http://www.cocomment.com/comments/butwait Copyright 2007 coComment.com 2009-11-23T03:32:54.801+01:00 http://www.cocomment.com/images/logo4rss.gif http://www.cocomment.com/sidebar?object=people&context=explore&mode=detail&id=butwait&conv=2375849&comment_id=55319167 Account Yay, Princeton Friends School! This is lovely. 2009-02-03T22:25:01.623+01:00 2009-02-03T22:25:01.623+01:00 http://www.cocomment.com/sidebar?object=people&context=explore&mode=detail&id=butwait&conv=2375845&comment_id=55319048 Account Great ideas, great music, great visuals! Yay, PFS! 2009-02-03T22:22:27.198+01:00 2009-02-03T22:22:27.198+01:00 http://www.cocomment.com/sidebar?object=people&context=explore&mode=detail&id=butwait&conv=1415302&comment_id=27003950 Anonymous Hang in there, sweet pea. My folks went from being REALLY unhappy/ uncomfortable to pretty close to fully accepting, so it does happen... and even when it doesn't, it is possible to survive and thrive. 2008-06-02T04:48:07.482+02:00 2008-06-02T04:48:07.482+02:00 http://www.cocomment.com/sidebar?object=people&context=explore&mode=detail&id=butwait&conv=1407365&comment_id=26844645 Shelley Here's where it's helpful to have a fellow blogger in the building whose instincts you trust... some posts deserve to be put in a "holding pattern" while you work to discern whether they truly need to be out there in permanent print. Seems like much would also depend upon how folks in leadership roles in your community think about dissent and/ or constructive criticism. In my experience, that little voice in the back of your head that makes your finger hover over the "submit" key is a friendly voice. Maybe a modified version that takes the form of Quaker-esque queries... no criticism, just an honest seeking of answers and fresh perspective? 2008-05-27T20:41:12.557+02:00 2008-05-27T20:41:12.557+02:00 http://www.cocomment.com/sidebar?object=people&context=explore&mode=detail&id=butwait&conv=1407365&comment_id=26844592 Shelley Here's where it's helpful to have a fellow blogger in the building whose instincts you trust... some posts deserve to be put in a "holding pattern" while you work to discern whether they truly need to be out there in permanent print. Seems like much would also depend upon how folks in leadership roles in your community think about dissent and/ or constructive criticism. In my experience, that little voice in the back of your head that makes your finger hover over the "submit" key is a friendly voice. Maybe a modified version that takes the form of Quaker-esque queries... no criticism, just an honest seeking of answers and fresh perspective? (<a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Query_(Quaker">This</a> might help folks for whom the Quaker reference is unclear) 2008-05-27T20:35:56.497+02:00 2008-05-27T20:35:56.497+02:00 http://www.cocomment.com/sidebar?object=people&context=explore&mode=detail&id=butwait&conv=1407365&comment_id=26844583 Shelley Here's where it's helpful to have a fellow blogger in the building whose instincts you trust... some posts deserve to be put in a "holding pattern" while you work to discern whether they truly need to be out there in permanent print. Seems like much would also depend upon how folks in leadership roles in your community think about dissent and/ or constructive criticism. In my experience, that little voice in the back of your head that makes your finger hover over the "submit" key is a friendly voice. Maybe a modified version that takes the form of Quaker-esque queries... no criticism, just an honest seeking of answers and fresh perspective? (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Query_(Quaker) might help folks for whom the Quaker reference is unclear) 2008-05-27T20:34:44.751+02:00 2008-05-27T20:34:44.751+02:00 http://www.cocomment.com/sidebar?object=people&context=explore&mode=detail&id=butwait&conv=1375545&comment_id=26312507 Anonymous I'm in! 2008-05-02T05:19:54.827+02:00 2008-05-02T05:19:54.827+02:00 http://www.cocomment.com/sidebar?object=people&context=explore&mode=detail&id=butwait&conv=1361080&comment_id=26295038 Shelley Good morning, good afternoon, good evening, and good night! (test cocomment post) 2008-05-01T04:16:50.157+02:00 2008-05-01T04:16:50.157+02:00